The Practical Side To Being In A Relationship

When you fall in love, or you really like someone, a lot of the time you tend to focus on the emotions. But the honeymoon phase is always going to end. While you can definitely keep your love alive throughout your entire relationship, you still have to make sure that you’re being practical. Because a romantic relationship is still a relationship, and it takes work for it to be successful. Whether you’ve just met, you’re thinking of getting engaged, or you’re already married, it’s so important for you to be practical when you want to create a life together. It’s not all about the emotions and the love. It sounds so unromantic, but it’s just real. So let’s take a look at how you can do just that.

Respect, Trust, and Communication

So the very first thing that you’re going to want to make sure you’re focusing on, is respect, trust, and communication. You may love each other, and you may be attracted to each other, but a lasting relationship needs to be more than that. So ensure that you have each other’s respect and that you do trust each other. But most importantly, you also need to make sure that you can communicate well with each other. This is going to help you to be successful in your relationship.

Setting Roles

Next up, you need to make sure that you each know your own roles. Now, if you’re not fair, it’s going to cause friction. You all have chores to do, or set roles within the relationship. And you need to be clear on what they are. You don’t want people to be let down or unhappy with the situation. So be sure that you can match this up and being clear.

Agreeing On Finances

The next thing can be quite sensitive, but it’s something that you just really have to work on. Couples that fight over finances can struggle. Instead, you need to be clear about them. Whether you want to share them and have secured joint and couple loans or keep them separate, you need to be honest. You also need to agree on who pays for what too!

Agreeing About The Future

Now, there are lots of things that you need to agree on, and things you don’t. But things like whether you want kids, what you want out of life, or even if you want to get married (if you’re not already). It matters that you’re on the same page.

Being Forgiving

Finally, you really do have to be realistic here. Don’t just assume that you’re going to get your fairytale ending, because relationships take work. So you need to respect that each of you are going to have your moments and you’re going to get annoyed with each other. But you need to be forgiving and know that it will take time for you to get things right. As long as you’re committed and you want it to work, then it will. You just have to be practical and realistic about the work it will take.


Hi! I'm Chaz. I'm the Founder of The Green Button Project, I run my own mental health blog, and I'm also a mental health volunteer with Time to Change and I also love dogs.

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